“Dealing” With Difficult People…

Dealing with difficult people is usually a source of personal power "leakage". In this conversation we explore how we can not only take our power back completely & never lose it again BUT learn to "see" the opportunity that is being presented for us to deepen our peace & joy...
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Dealing with difficult people is usually a source of personal power “leakage”. In this conversation we explore how we can not only take our power back completely & never lose it again BUT learn to “see” the opportunity that is being presented for us to deepen our peace & joy…

The messiest part of life is our interpersonal relationships, navigating this journey with others. This has been made all the more challenging with our global lack of effective, useful “training” guiding us to authentic communication and real empathy…

The result is that we put people in categories with attributes and qualities that make them somehow different from us, particularly “difficult people”, somehow separate, somehow able to make us feel certain things because of the way they are, unable to find a place of true peace in their presence…

Difficult people seemingly evoke feelings within us we don’t want, we’re trained to think that this person is the reason for what I’m feeling. This approach to “life” keeps us stuck in a loop where peace can never be found, it’s impossible in fact! The experience of difficult people in our lives is a source of stress from which we slowly, cumulatively experience the effects of, the guaranteed outcome is dis-ease and it just doesn’t need to be this way.

There’s another way to look at it, one that turns the tables entirely and gives us a chance to actually find the peace our heart is calling us to experience and it comes when we understand that our experience of difficult people is simple a projection from within our own mind of unacceptable parts of ourselves, aspects we have avoided wanting to look at because they feel uncomfortable and have been built up into a mountain in our minds but are actually just a story we’ve forgotten isn’t even real…

It’s our hidden beliefs about ourself that we project onto the world, which are the cause of our experience in every possible way, including “difficult people” that we can expose and heal in order to remove the obstacles to the presence of peace and love now, not when something about “that” person changes, but right here and right now so that you can live the life you really want, expanding in pure joy!

What we discover on this journey to peace is that the people that seem to be the most difficult in our lives are the greatest GIFT we could every ask for (and we have asked), the gift that is the door we can open to find the cause of our “problem” is a thought we kept thinking about “me” and we can choose again in alignment with our vision for loveliness. With the right tools we can see the illusory nature of thoughts that are out of alignment with love and restore the ‘flow’ for our highest experience of life, to awaken to the presence of love in every moment.

Here’s a video from a recent “Masterclass” in The Life Mastery Room, come and join the transforming fun we have everyday right HERE…

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